Before I met my girlfriend I used to go out a lot to play pool with my mates, but since we’re together I haven’t really had the chance to do that in years as she kept saying that she cannot play. My friends all got married and have kids so it’s very hard to find time and have a fun night out with them. As I miss playing pool a lot, I decided that…[Read more]

I usually drive to work and home, so not a big cyclist but always see tourists discovering the city by bike and they seem to have loads of fun, so I’ve ben toying with the idea of trying this myself. One weekend I nagged my wife into going out on a bike tour. We thoroughly enjoyed being out together and we got to know our locale in a way we never…[Read more]

This is great fun: Steamy Bucket List. We play this every now and then when our kids are with their grandparents. Can only recommend.

I have to say that for a period of time I was so busy and stressed at work that we haven’t been having sex for weeks or even months. My wife is a very clever woman, very understanding and caring, and always has a plan. This period was really hard on her as well as she loves her sex, so she came up with another (master) plan… One night after…[Read more]

Respecting your partner is always a good idea but I find that if you genuinely respect and appreciate your spouse whatever they do (even when they’re driving you mad at the moment), it will enhance your connection in a big way. It defo needs some practice though to always be able to see the bigger picture and not stick in that bad moment, so you…[Read more]

I find being able to forgive a very important quality in a relationship. It’s not very clever to harbor bad feelings and resentment towards your partner as it’s bad for your relationship and also for your health. I always make sure that when I go to bed, I do so with no resentment towards my spouse and others. I find that a regular meditation…[Read more]

In the winter there’s not much that you would want to do outdoors as it’s all cold and dark, and you just want to stay in the warm house and only go out when it’s absolutely necessary – at least me anyway. I would honestly be very happy if hibernating for the entire winter season and only wake up when the cold weather has already passed was an…[Read more]

I know that some of my mates don’t find it very masculine and think my girlfriend’s got me under the thumb, but I always make sure that I participate in housework. My girlfriend is always so appreciative and thinks I’m the best. 🙂 Some vacuuming or taking the rubbish out is not the end of the world but makes all the difference when it comes to…[Read more]

I think Coco Chanel said it best – and she definitely knew about beauty and looking good…

After years of being together our sex life was nearly non-existent. I love my boyfriend a lot and didn’t want to lose him over this, so I decided to buy an egg vibrator and go for a night on the town with him. I put it in, gave him the remote and told him to do whatever he wants with it while we’re out. Being in control this way turned him on so…[Read more]

One day I caught my boyfriend watching porn which I don’t really mind, and so I just looked at the screen and checked out what’s turning him on. So the following day when we were about to get it on, he was starting to undress me. He was about to take off my panties when I told him to keep those on like the girl on his movie last night. All I can…[Read more]

My husband and I are trying to set aside some time every week to work through difficulties before they ruin our relationship. We both agree that our kids should not notice if we disagree on something or we’re just mad about the other momentarily. We usually sit down to check in and discuss things every Thursday when the kids are already in bed.…[Read more]

My husband and I were best friends way before we decided to get married and start a family. We both believe that this is key for being able to stay together in the long run. When you know each other on a deep level, know who the other one is, you’re more likely to be able to stay together as you know what to expect from them, how you behave in…[Read more]

One of my friends told me that they were going through a rough patch with his husband and their therapist suggested to find out programs through which they could reconnect. One of the ‘tasks’ they were given was to go out and relive their first date to see how and why they fell in love with each other and find the same appreciation and adoration…[Read more]