This is great fun: Steamy Bucket List. We play this every now and then when our kids are with their grandparents. Can only recommend.

One day I caught my boyfriend watching porn which I don’t really mind, and so I just looked at the screen and checked out what’s turning him on. So the following day when we were about to get it on, he was starting to undress me. He was about to take off my panties when I told him to keep those on like the girl on his movie last night. All I can…[Read more]

If you have ever experienced how it feels that someone’s (your mum, dad, your teachers, your spouse, your friend etc.) tried to change you, you know that it usually just brings you down and makes you feel not good enough. If you’re trying to change your partner, they’re going to experience the same, and they’ll not take it kindly, just as you…[Read more]

My husband and I are very busy, always on the phone or our laptops working. This has had a serious effect on our love life as we were always tired by the time we got to bed and had no energy for making love. We both felt that we need to do something and we decided to unplug, turn all our devices off (yes, even the iPhones!) which seemed to be the…[Read more]

I heartily recommend that you establish a consistent bedtime for the kids that gives you and your partner a few hours together every night. Simply carve out adults-only time every night. It’s not just good for the two of you – it’s good for your kids also. If they see that their parents are taking time for themselves, that they genuinely cherish…[Read more]

When we moved house my long term boyfriend discovered that I have a vibrator in one of the boxes which I haven’t used for a long time. I didn’t think that it would be exciting for him to have such a device around, so I never used it, but one night he hid it under the pillow and surprised me by taking it out during foreplay. He said he wants to see…[Read more]

This was super-helpful to me!!