RedG

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    RedG
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    My husband and I are very busy, always on the phone or our laptops working. This has had a serious effect on our love life as we were always tired by the time we got to bed and had no energy for making love. We both felt that we need to do something and we decided to unplug, turn all our devices off (yes, even the iPhones!) which seemed to be the culprit, and had a power outage date! We left the kids with the grandparents, bought a ton of candles, some incense sticks and lit them all up. The house was full of candles, it looked so nice and warm. We had a lovely candle-lit bath, followed by a candle-lit dinner that we ordered in, with some nice wine. We also put some logs on the fire and the rest is… I’m sure you can imagine the rest. 🙂

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    RedG
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    I heartily recommend that you establish a consistent bedtime for the kids that gives you and your partner a few hours together every night. Simply carve out adults-only time every night. It’s not just good for the two of you – it’s good for your kids also. If they see that their parents are taking time for themselves, that they genuinely cherish each other and are affectionate with one another, that gives them a sense of stability.

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