This is great fun: Steamy Bucket List. We play this every now and then when our kids are with their grandparents. Can only recommend.

I find being able to forgive a very important quality in a relationship. It’s not very clever to harbor bad feelings and resentment towards your partner as it’s bad for your relationship and also for your health. I always make sure that when I go to bed, I do so with no resentment towards my spouse and others. I find that a regular meditation…[Read more]

In the winter there’s not much that you would want to do outdoors as it’s all cold and dark, and you just want to stay in the warm house and only go out when it’s absolutely necessary – at least me anyway. I would honestly be very happy if hibernating for the entire winter season and only wake up when the cold weather has already passed was an…[Read more]

One day I caught my boyfriend watching porn which I don’t really mind, and so I just looked at the screen and checked out what’s turning him on. So the following day when we were about to get it on, he was starting to undress me. He was about to take off my panties when I told him to keep those on like the girl on his movie last night. All I can…[Read more]

If you have ever experienced how it feels that someone’s (your mum, dad, your teachers, your spouse, your friend etc.) tried to change you, you know that it usually just brings you down and makes you feel not good enough. If you’re trying to change your partner, they’re going to experience the same, and they’ll not take it kindly, just as you…[Read more]

My husband and I are very busy, always on the phone or our laptops working. This has had a serious effect on our love life as we were always tired by the time we got to bed and had no energy for making love. We both felt that we need to do something and we decided to unplug, turn all our devices off (yes, even the iPhones!) which seemed to be the…[Read more]

I heartily recommend that you establish a consistent bedtime for the kids that gives you and your partner a few hours together every night. Simply carve out adults-only time every night. It’s not just good for the two of you – it’s good for your kids also. If they see that their parents are taking time for themselves, that they genuinely cherish…[Read more]